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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: *op's own title* Dear friends, your advice is much needed! i met a guy around 4 months back, we started seeing each other , he used to travel for 2 to 3 weeks at least once a month so i total i saw him around 12 times.We were patient concerning sex ( we had it 3 months after we met), and he said he wanted to wait more cause he takes me seriously, the problem is that everytime he travels he disappears sometimes for 4 days without contact and it's frustrating but i never confronted him.3 weeks back he came back and told me that he's leaving for good to his country, and he did, this is when we had our first love making , he got in touch almost every day and i planned to go and see him in july, we decided to give it a try , then again same scenario happened, he disappeared since 4 days , i texted asking him about few papers for my visa, no reply, then again texted him the 2nd day no reply, i don't know what to think or do?shall i break it off with this guy why does he keep doing this?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 June 2010):
Break it off. He could be using and maybe he has other women elsewhere. But the fact is that he is totally unreliable, and you don't need to put up with that.
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