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writes: Ok so the boy I'm in lust with right now has fairly animalistic tendencies when he is aroused and he's afraid that he'll hurt me. So he pulls away. And I need some help on tips to get him... fired up and riled up so that he won't worry so much about hurting me. Can anyone help? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (19 April 2009):
The best thing to do is not try and make him lose control al together because he will and then he'll feel like he raped you or something and feel AWFUL.
So just wait till he starts to lose himself and then pulls away and then just DON'T LET HIM! If he pulls back then pounce on him and kiss him hard and be an animal yourself.
Let him know how much you are enjoying it when he is a bit rough by being rough back.
Then afterwards tell him how great he is and which bits you liked best.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (19 April 2009):
Just have a conversation with him and tell him that you aren't flimsy and that you just want to have sex with him. Tell him that this characteristic doesn't put you off him! I'm not sure what you could do to get him horny, go on google and search for sex and foreplay tips. X
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reader, Karlin24 +, writes (19 April 2009):
Personally, I like the beast in a man when it comes to sex. The question is, will you? You aren't specific on animal tendancies so it's hard to answer this, but go with this. If you want him riled, and if you're not afraid of what his tendencies are, and if you really, really want him, be animal-like towards him. Let him know you ready and willing to see the beast. Just be sure that the beast is really what you want from him before you encourage it. You haven't said what your wants and needs are so if they are not animal-like and rough, you may want to rethink this relationship
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