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writes:This is a follow up to a question I put on here on the 17 April under the title. "It's all so confusing for me" http://www.dearcupid.org/question/its-all-so-confusing-for-me.html. Since the post I have made things worse I went and got drunk and the guy she keeps texting was saying he reckon he could get her into bed and provide pictures by the end of the month. I was so drunk and angry that I bet him a £100 pound he couldn't as I knew she wasn't like that.She is very suspicious that something has been said I feel awful for doing it though I had good intentions at heart I do not know if I should tell her as I always believe in being honest. She is still not talking to me so it makes it very difficult and I know she will go mad and say I was interfering and trying to control her. I just do not know what to do I want to be able to talk to her calmy and discuss the last few days events. I would not say it is a case I am hanging in the friend ship in the hope we become an item I am very fond of her though and feel awfull about the things I said and called her but she has hurt me very badly and just do not think she has intrntionally set out to use me. I just do not know what to do and so miss her.This will make sense when you read my original post and thank you to the two people who answered I do understand what you are saying to me it is just so complicated.
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reader, Who  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 “…I have made things worse I went and got drunk and the guy she keeps texting was saying he reckon he could get her into bed and provide pictures by the end of the month. I was so drunk and angry that I bet him a £100 pound he couldn't as I knew she wasn't like that…. I do not know if I should tell her as I always believe in being honest.”In general do not tell anyone about stupid things you do when drunk. You are not being dishonest by not telling her; no two people can tell each other everything that happens to them. If she asks you straight out, then you can tell her, but otherwise not.(Also, you don’t want to post to internet advice site while drunk. Type all you want but read and correct when sober before you post it.)“She is still not talking to me…”The friendship is over, like ilovebowsandcherries and Emilysanswers answered to your first post. Your fault, her fault, no one’s fault, it does not matter. It is over, walk away taking a few experiences you can learn from for future friendships.“I would not say it is a case I am hanging in the friend ship in the hope we become an item…”Devote the effort and thought you have been putting into this (now over) friendship into finding a nice lady you CAN be an item with. Once that happens you will forgot all about the confusion you are feeling now.
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