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writes:ok, I'm a Hispanic dude, born in the US to Dominican parents, but I do not consider myself Dominican at all. I do not behave like your average Dominican and I definitely do not talk or write like your average Dominican. You see, that I do not care about at all. I see myself as an American. More of a white person than a Dominican. I'm not a big fan of the Dominicans' lifestyle. so I don't belong, I don't fit. thing is, I really really have this thing for white girls. I like attractive white girls, and my question here is, what are the chances of an attractive white girl falling for a decently attractive male who looks Dominican in skin complexion, hair, and all, but dresses very well and does things like your average white American male? In other words, is it possible that I can hook up w/ one w/o being stereotyped by my brown tan-like skin complexion? Reply to this Question
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reader, Handsome Dominican +, writes (2 March 2010):
HHHmmmmm let's see how can i answer in a nice way without offending the sellout....First of all if you don't consider yourself Dominican why would you ask if these specific girls are in to dating Dominicans...Should not the question be rephrase to "are american women in to guys who are in the Carton Banks category,who are dying to bleach their skin?"....I'm sure there many women not just white women, who are in to real Dominicans....exotic Dominicans not no Carton Banks....I love white women, I love all kinds of women so ladies i am a Dominican a cute Dominican with all the dominicano features hit me up lol...and by the way we don't need a sell out trying to dress like Dominicans....more than half the world already dresses like us and have our Metro-sexual(A man who is high maintenance,takes care of himself,always smells good and looks good,treats a lady she suppose to be treated and is Straight!) thing down pack from us.......so do us Dominicans a favor bro rephrase your ridiculous question....Palomo
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reader, Dark Angel_2017 +, writes (8 February 2010):
hey there! I am an american girl who has blonde hair blue eyes and I have a Dominican boyfriend who is full blown Dominican. I live here in the USA and he lives in the Dominican Republic but its working...so I say its a definate yes that you have a chance with any american girl! :) My boyfriend is learning English so that means he knows spanish because it is his first language but that does not change how i feel about him. So yeah you have a good chance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): oh im a french girl and i love domenican boys soo much.only problem here is they are hard to find.but i would give all for having one.sorry for my english.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (5 May 2009):
 En gustos se rompen generos, as we say in Spanish. All of us have our different preferences.
I'm a North American and Floridian, of mixed British and Spanish (and prairie dog, lol) ancestry... and I've always loved Mexican guys. Many of them are handsome and so sweet!! I love the features, jet black hair and dark brown eyes... but above all, the culture is just sexy and romantic!!
I was born and raised in the USA, but I always felt disengaged from American culture (no offense to my friends from USA). Nothing wrong with American, I just felt like I was really supposed to be somewhere else. I lived in Mexico for awhile and adjusted really well, and I think in Spanish and identify with latin culture.
Que casualidad, you're of Dominican descent... but identify with Anglo culture! You and I are the exception... but that's not bad! I'm another person like you, who identifies more with a foreign culture.
I've got to disagree with you, Friend Tom. I don't think that all cross-cultural relationships are doomed to fail. I don't even think that the normal rules of cultural differences would apply, because this poster is an American... Dominican descent, but American, identifies with American culture and thinks in English.
He shouldn't have a problem finding a white girl who likes tanned-skin boys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): well, i am white and have blonde hair and have always been more attracted to darker guys..actually, especially dominican guys and yeah i think that people always look a little better when they are a bit darker, not fake looking tho.
why would you doubt that white girls wouldn't be attracted to you anyway? i know some white girls who aren't with white guys..haha, idk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): Well, anon, it is certainly common where I am. I don't pretend to know why a "cross cultural" relationship is so attractive to either boys or girls, because there are a lot of problems that have to be overcome. Many find they cannot deal with it and the relationship ends soon. The commonality of the youth culture, media, music the socialization of the school system, etc., often lead young people to think they have no differences that would prevent a relationship. But, when they become involved, family also becomes involved, family..with all it's strong pulls and emotional ties. There is always culture clash, and young people are never financially able to separate themselves from their families. They cannot be financially independent, even though their brains and emotions tell them they are "adults". They are not "culturally free" to be adults...and won't be for several years. There is nothing wrong with being friends, but I would give the same advice to all young persons, even if they were of the same ethnic and cultural background...."Romance and young love" feels wonderful, and indeed it is, but it has little future. One of the "sad but true" facts of life. At best, you will suffer for a while, but, you will survive. At worst, you will do something stupid and hurt each other badly, your present lives and your future, and perhaps bring another person into the world who will suffer even more than you. Not wise, not 'cool,' and very selfish. So, anon. It does not really matter what kind of girl "turns you on" at this stage of your life. You must become a stand up, self supporting and independent man before you consider any serious relationship with any girl...of any persuasion. Have you understood any of what I have been saying? Possibly, but, you will be one of the few if you admit it...(smile).
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