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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. In this time we moved in together and had a baby. We are planning to marry in the next year and a half, but over the past year I've realised what a selfish person he is 80% of the time. He speaks to me like crap most of the time and is only nice for a reason or if he feels in a good mood. If he isn't in a good mood then he is arrogant and horrible. We have such a lovely house and that is because he works quite hard and we have the most perfect liitle girl, but increasingly he is acting like a spoilt child and mentally hurts me. What do I do? I can't leave because he's told me there's no way I'll see my little girl even though I've always said I'd never stop him seeing her! He would make it very hard for me to leave I'm sure.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (19 March 2006):
 You do need to talk to somebody about this. What kind of person gives you a choice like that. I can't understand him. Why would he want to go through the motions of being in a happy relationship when he knows you're only there out of fear. Talk to a therapist or somebody. If he's unwilling, leave. Anybody who is unwilling to talk to a therapist is already too far gone. The reason I say this is because if the relationship meant anything to him, he'd do anything to improve it and fix it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2006): I think you should talk to your family members about this problem.
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