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writes:Hi! The majority of anyone who reads this will more than likely think that this is crazy and that I should be happy. I'm 19 years old and live with my boyfriend we have been together for quite some time but we are still young. Just a few days ago, literally about three days, I found out that I was pregnant through a blood test after I had taken a home pregnancy test that said it was negative. I went to the doctor because I was almost a week late. Just yesterday however, I started my period. The night afterI had taken the blood test I started to cramp severly which is when I suppose miscarried. Please note that I am not trying to get pregnant, and my boyfriend and I are careful and use protection. But we have had trouble with condoms breaking, about twice in the past two months. I also miscarried in the 24th of september. While I'm not ready for a baby, two miscarriages in two months really worry me. I love kids and want to have them in about four to five years and a lot can happen between that time. I'm just worried that when I'm ready to, I will just keep miscarrying. I shouldnt worry and like my boyfriend says for now its a good thing Im not prenant. But we both worry in the future that I wont be able to have kids. Should I be worried now, or start to worry when we start trying to have children?
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reader, blackroses2989 +, writes (15 November 2008):
blackroses2989 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi again, I'm sorry to get back to all of you so late, thank you so much for your comments and answers they really helped me. I went to the doctor a few weeks ago, just after I submitted the question. He said that I was not miscarrying, but the reason my cramps were so severe was because I had infact miscarried the time before. He said I may not have suspected anything at the time because I was only a few weeks along and it is common to feel faint during a period. But everything is back on track now, my body is regulating its self to normal. Thank you so much for your help and support I really appreciate it! ^_^
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Are you absolutely sure you've actually miscarried? Like another poster said, you should have ran to the hospital, especially if as you say it's your second one in two months.I've had a miscarriage while i was trying for a baby and my doctor said that i wouldn't be physically able to have another child for another eight to ten weeks. I'm not saying you haven't miscarried just that unless a doctor has told you for a fact that you have i wouldn't take it as truth. I very strongly doubt that you have had two miscarriages in such a short amount of time.You need to speak to a doctor as something like a hormone inbalance could be messing you periods up, and making them late, hence making you think you're miscarrying when you're not.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 November 2008):
You say you suppose you miscarried... did you not dash to a hospital? Is that not really dangerous? Could it actually be a bad period caused by some kind of hormonal imbalance is you didn't get checked out?
No one is going to say you should be happy that you miscarried.
But I think you need to go and talk to a doctor and talk to him about it. Fertility is such a complex issue that you need to talk to an expert about it and not some strangers on the internet.
Good Luck!! xx
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