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writes: my fella has told me that we only have 2 days left of our relationship!! why has he given a deadline? what does this mean? im risking everything for him and now we only have 2 days left together!! i am so confused as i love him so much! i do i love him more than anything! please help me, my head is in a mess!! Reply to this Question
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reader, pica +, writes (16 August 2006):
Honestly? Tell him he's run out of time already and dump him. Harsh I know, but no-one who loves or respects you would behave like this. If he has an issue then he should discuss it with you. He has absolutely no right to hand out ultimatums like that. Find yourself someone decent who knows better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2006): I'm with RJGirl, well not together in a relationship lolz, but i agree that theres something he dont like about you and has lost patience...
He wants you to change within 2 days, sadly it will never happen and dont try to change as you will make silly mistakes that only desperate people do and you will lose him.
Show him that you love him, i wont give no suggestions as if its not in your character then he will suspect you cheated and the problem be worse. Dont over do it though! Its possible to try too hard.
Calm down babe, i doubt in 2days it will be totally over, and if you do split up it dont mean you wont get back!! (its only when you are apart you realise your true feelings)
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reader, bonym  +, writes (16 August 2006):
 That sounds very bizarre and I think you deserve a proper explanation. I am baffled as to why he has put a number of days on the relationship, so you should ask him to be straight with you and demand a reason for his decision. Good luck. xXx
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (16 August 2006):
 I think you need to ask him why he said such a thing... A deadline normally means that something has to be done or achieved by a certain time... As he indicated in the past that there was a problem ? have you been rowing lately, is he due to go somewhere ? I think hun that you are going to have to ask him what the deadline is for if he hasnt told you and you have no idea then this is a bit odd. Perhaps there was somethign that he mentioned to you before and you have forgotten, or is he just playing silly games trying to see how much you want him and by setting a deadline will have you begging him to stay... Im not sure why someone would say such a thing unless plans were set or a deadline was arranged, so you really are going to have to ask him why he thinks that you two are to end in two days, its a bit harsh telling someone that, but you need to know why he said it and where you stand.
Take care x
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reader, caraduddy +, writes (16 August 2006):
 Ask him why he has said 2 it. Maybe he is struggling what to do about the relationship to carry it on or to end it..proove yourself to him proove how much you love him and how much you care ..remind him of the good things. He sounds pretty strange putting a date on something like this but make him see how in love you are with him and how much you dont want this to end. xX good luck Xx i hope everything turns out how you want it to . keep me informed if you like. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2006): Sounds to me like he's trying to give you a chance to change whatever behavior it is that he doesn't like, or to fight to keep him. I don't think this really means that you have only two days left together, I think this really means that you have to days to prove yourself to him or he will end it. I could be wrong, though. He could just be really organized and had written down in his daily planner that two days from today is break-up day. I doubt it, though. I hope this has helped at least a little. Don't go down without a fight! I wish you the best of luck and I hope everything works out okay. Take care!
~RJGirl
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