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writes:Hey im seventeen and I need help with something. I have two boyfriends and I really didn't feel bad about it before because I only got into this second relationship because my boyfriend of five months lets just call him Tyrese has been busy with work lately and hasn't had much time to spend with me. I realize that when im having problems in my relationships I look for other guys to make me forget about those problems. So now me and my boyfriend Tyrese are good but the other boyfriend lets just call him Ken...well i want to brake up with him but I can't do it. I know i used him but his grandpa has cancer and his grandma just died and he told me he needs me to be there for him.What should I do?Should I brake up with Ken?And to make things clear I do like Ken and Tyrese and they both tell me they are in love with me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your help
yea i do seem guiltless but trust me im not i feel very guilty about this whole situation especially since they dont know about each other
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reader, silvershocker123 +, writes (24 May 2009):
WOW, and the best part is you sound entirely guiltless...
You do have to break up with one of them don't take in the fact that ken is going through emotional turmoil, because you can't base love on mere pitty.But ask yourself who would you rather be with. And another thing and this is somthing that you may not agree with me on but i am going to say it anyway.... its natural to feel sexually attracted two or even twenty people but it is not very natural to be romantically involved with two people and more importantly not very nice to actually perceive it.
The reason why i know this is becasue i went through sort of the same thing fell in love with a girl for the first time and thought that however morality right i consider myselfe to be i thought that by making the right moves i can drift her away from her boyfriend but she wanted us both. And that's when i left her. By the way, do they know about each other ????
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