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I was sweaty and smelly. Did this ruin my chances with her?

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Question - (23 May 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey Everybody,

Basically, I was at university playing some pickup soccer with some of my friends, but there was this new girl playing with us and she had to guard me, so i was taking it easy on her and everything right, but I noticed that she kept smiling at me in that way, ya know...but here's the thing, I hadn't taken a shower before I came to play, and half way through the game she turns to one of my friends , right in front of me and says "he smells",...so my friend starts laughing, and I was like, " yeah i know, no shower,lol" and I laughed it off, ...(oh and before that, she had made a comment about me being pretty fast)..what I wanna know is, mainly from the female agony aunts...assuming if she found me physically attractive, do you think the fact that I did smell pretty musty ruined my chances if i were to see here again and try to talk to her and make a move?( you know with the whole first impression thing) If you were in her position and you thought a guy was cute, but he smelled kinda ruff but you were playing sports, what would you think? Thanks everybody

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009):

Thanks a bunch everybody!, I feel so much better about it, I think I will use it to my advantage, Thanks again!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (23 May 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntYou were playing sports!!! It seems like she was digging you and you know what? Sometimes seeing a guy all sweaty is super hot (think: David Beckham post game... ROWR). You can turn this into an opportunity: "Maybe we can hang out when I'm not sweating through my shirt" (or some line along those lines), and then when you see her be all clean and delicious!

I think she probably thinks you're sexy. I would!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009):

Hahaha, i like this guy and every day i see him after he's gone running. Though i don't usually smell anything, he's definitely sweaty. and let me tell you, i actually find that attractive ;)

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A female reader, Sweety Pie United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2009):

Sweety Pie agony auntGo see her again whilst your smelling GORGOUS with that linx or whatever it is boys wear that works so well :) I dont think shes that bothered, everyone is sweaty after sports x

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntIts normal to smell and sweat during sports so if I found someone attractive and I was playinh sports with them then it wouldn't put me off. X

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntIts normal to smell and sweat during sports so if I found someone attractive and I was playinh sports with them then it wouldn't put me off. X

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