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writes: My boyfriend recently got back from Minnesota. He took a vacation for two months and got caught up with friends, drugs and drinking. He was fine when he got here, and now he's got this attitude like no other.. How do I stop being concerned and resolve this fighting?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006): ok sweetie..u aint the only gurl da goes thru this...ive had plenty of my gurl mates complain abt the way their men behave after theyve bin away for a while...all i can say is 'boys will be boys'...try not to be so full on...i kno u prob missed him n stuff..tell him da u missed him...make him realise da being wid u is the best fing ever (wink wink)..god bless u n urz...friend x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006): You can't just stop being concerned. That's a part of your own personality. That's something you have to do on your part. Aside from that, resolving fights isn't a one way deal. He also has to contribute to trying to resolve fights. Unless of course, the fighting is one way, but even then, there must have been a cause for it. So pinpoint the cause, talk it out, and possibly compromise. Eventually it might get to the point where enough compromising, may lead to just solving the entire issues themselves.
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