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writes: When you give your significant other a 2nd chance after he's cheated, how do you know how to read the signs if he were to do it again without being paranoid. i mean, i want to forgive him and move on and give him the benefit of the doubt to start building trust again but at the same time, i dont wanna leave my self vulnerable... Where do you draw the line?
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reader, angelico +, writes (21 June 2006):
My partner cheated me after being with me for 5 years, and it was disastrous..but after 2 years, he came back to me, and I couldnt trust him again. I just forgot and moved on..
http://www.iwishisaidno.com/forum/2469-how-can-you-trust-again.html
The site above has some testimonials about a girl who wants to know how far you can trust your partner. Regardless of the opinions, I wont give a second chance to my cheating partner.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (20 May 2006):
 My dear there is no set "time limit" on when you can give a cheating partner a second chance. The question you have to ask yourself is whether you are able in your heart to forgive that person. If someone has cheated on me I would be very inclined to end the relationship purley because I am of the opinion that if they cheated on me in the past, they obviously werent truly in love with me if they cheated on me in the first place. However on the other hand some people genuinely can change and see the error of their ways and would never ever cheat again, but all I would say to you is that you must do what your gut instint says. I am sure there will be little tell tale signs that would give away the game if he was cheating. If you are having problems forgiving him it is clearly saying that you are not ready to proceed with the relationship, so why not take a break and make him suffer whilst you decide what you want to do. There is no excuse for cheating, so he must learn his lesson. All the best. xXx
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reader, eddie  +, writes (20 May 2006):
 He has to be open and available at all times. He has to answer your questions, all of them. He owes you this much and his debt will be payed when the day comes that you no longer feel the need to ask him things. Until then, this is his punishment.
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