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Torn between two boys, one is more like me and we agree on a lot of things, the other is not so much like me, and not sure of his feelings for me, who is the better choice?

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Question - (16 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *binastar writes:

Hi,

Im in year 9 and i'v had a boyfriend for about 2 months now. When he asked me out i wasnt really attracted to him it was just we are so much like eachother and we never argue because we agree with eachother for practically everything.

Now there is this other boy who i have known since i was a baby and his my god brother who i have always had a crush on but i never thought he felt the same about me as he is in the year below me. recently my god brother broke up with his gf and ever since has started talking to me more. now he talks to me more i have felt even more attracted him then ever and i talk to him more than i talk to my bf (as i dont see my bf out of school) and even though i dont think he has feeling for me i still have these overpowering feelings for him yet our personalities aren't that alike.

I really dont want to break up with my bf as 1) i still like him just not as much anymore 2)i dont want to hurt his feelings and im not sure i can break up with him anyway because i have basicly no confidence.

So what do i do stay with the boy whos most like me, has feelings for me but i dont talk to that much and im losing feelings for him or the boy who isnt as much like me, im not sure has feelings for me but i talk to more and have more feelings for?

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A male reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2008):

Phsyciatrist-to-be agony auntI think if you're not sure how much you like your current boyfriend, then you should talk to him about your relationship: how does he think you're both doing? As for your god brother, I would just wait a while: he may give some unintentional hints as to what his feelings toward you are.

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