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writes:OMG! I'm torn between 4 guys!! D: I like boy number 1 and boy number 2 who are brothers, and always look at me. Boy number 3 is older, hes 19 while im 15, and he's going off to college soon. And boy number 4 is just one year older than me, and he's recently been looking at me and flirting a little. I want them all, but I know I can't be with them all, and its killing me. So please can someone help me with how to help choose?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2011): Firstly, you should set your standards a little higher....That might help you in the future with your selection process- A guy looking at you does not necessarily mean he is the best choice as far as a mate goes.
Secondly, What is the big rush? Seriously? You are so young yet, do you really want to be burnt out on relationships by the time you reach 16? Because that will end up happening if you spend more time focusing on boys instead of yourself, your priorities and doing well on the both.
Good Luck.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (16 May 2011):
 Ok, well I will look at this guy by guy:
Guys 1 & 2 - are brothers, so if they both like you (you have not said if any of these guys actually like you, just that they look at you which means nothing) then you cant date one of them, otherwise you will come between them. So stay away from guys 1 and 2, it will only cause trouble.
Guy 3 - he is too old for you and is moving away, long distance relationships are incredibly hard and I can tell you now, he will be meeting loads of girls at college so he wont want a 15 year old hanging around at home waiting for him. He is not an option.
Guy 4 - he is the best option. He is close to your age, not moving away, he flirts with you - he is definitely your best chance here.
As I mentioned before - you have not actually said if any of these guys like you, and as much as there are 4 guys you have crushes on, there is a chance that none of them have a crush on you! So it might help to find out if any of these guys like you, before you dive right in and make a fool out of yourself.
But if you want to ask one of these guys out, definitely go for guy 4, none of the others are suitable.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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