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writes:i like this young girl .she's 18 i am 24.i met her at a music concert when she walked up to me after i greeted her and i ended up buying her a drink.so i thought the lady likes me.afterwards if she sees me in town she would greet me smiling and since i know her place of work i started visiting her and buying her lunch.she was really happy u know and at one moment i swear i could see love in her eyes.iwould see her at least twice a week but due to work commitments imissed her for a month.when i eventually saw her i told her first thing that i want her but she answered she is too young to have a boyfriend .i insisted on my mission but we eventually quarreled and i broke off any contact with her.is she playing hard to get or is she for real? afterall she is the one who initiated the whole thing greeting me,smiling at me walking up to me after i just said hi.what should i do coz i also like her and i have been really nice to her [buying her lunch and stuff] Reply to this Question
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reader, Devilish Angel  +, writes (24 January 2008):
 Sounds like you freaked her out. I mean, if a guy I had been flirting with comes up to me after a week of disappearance and says that he wants me I would feel put off. Why are you still obsessed with her? You guys broke it off so just move on. She's using her age as an excuse because she feels uncomfortable around you. Sounds like something I would do too if a guy was bothering me.
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reader, Kodgypie  +, writes (16 January 2008):
sounds a little like she is using you mate. However, she could just not feel old enough to have a boyfriend because regardless of actually age, if she is not ready then she ain't ready. Another veiw is that she doesn't want a boyfriend as she perhaps like to mess around with more than one, doesn't want to be tied down. Or is just dating around to gain different experiences.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 Call her up , talk to her and see how she is feeling.If you feel that she is cold towards you,then you could have offended her and you need to be humble and apologize for your mistake.
She needs to know more about you first before she wants to be your g/f.You cannot rush this process. You need to woo her and give your relationship time to bloom.You need to validate her feelings and she would be happy to be with you.
Age is not a factor but maturity is.
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reader, tha Aman +, writes (16 January 2008):
tha Aman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso this lady likes me as a great friend.but i want more than friendship.how do i get a girl who is completely ecstatic around me as a friend,to be more than just friends?it is horrifying for me to continue the friendship(what if another guy comes and takes her from under my nose).she does not have a boyfriend currently and i want to be the lucky guy.is it possible for an 18 year old girl to look for pure friendship from a 24 year old guy?would i go up to beyonce or jessica alba so that she can be my buddy?and not look for sumthing more?help me please.i like this girl.how do i convince her ican be a good lover.her body language shows she is sumhow interested coz she is the one who started talking to me.help please.must i apologize for telling her i want her& continue as a friend?
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reader, tha Aman +, writes (16 January 2008):
tha Aman is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni actually like this girl. how should i get back talking to her.i really think she likes me come on guys ,how can an 18 year old seek friendship with a 24 year old?only friendship?i mean people say i look quite attractive u know.ladies help me out here what really is this girl looking for since she is one of your species.what course of action should i take. 18 year old girls make perfect girls for 24 year old guys.must i appologize or do what?
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (15 January 2008):
You should not have pushed her.If she said she is too young to have a b/f, then you should accept her as a friend.You did not see her for a month and she may have been crossed at you.Sometimes you have to feel them out and not what comes out of their mouth.The mouth may say one thing while the heart feels the opposite.
Nobody likes to be forced to go against their will.You did not respect her opinions. You need to go along with her and just enjoy the time with her.She may changed her opinions later on.
She likes you but the way you conducted yourself is a bit disgraceful and ungentlemanly.
If you want her back , you will have to apologise for your actions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): Do the words GOLD-DIGGER ring a bell?Dump this money-grubbing girl and let her work herself out. Find someone better.Flynn 24
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