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writes: My girlfreind today had a pregnancy test. She is positive. What am i to do? We have established that we have to make a decision as a couple and not as individuals because i was asking her what she wants?Shes 17 and we've only been going out for a week!Can anybody help me out because i have no idea whats going through her mind and she doesnt know what she wants.... n i am the same for that matter i do not know what i want.Any advice?
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
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first of all, if you've only been together seven days, there is no pregnacy test that will show you this! The aby is probably her ex's. It would have been best not to jump into a relationship staright away and start sleeping with her staright away. Good luck with everythig but i think she's taking you for a ride!
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reader, willywombat +, writes (4 April 2006):
 Seven days?
This girl is atking you for a ride.
Yes she could be pregnant,but believe me there isnt a pregnacy test in the world you can buy over the counter that will show you this!
Chances are this is her ex's baby. Sorry to disapoint. But there are ways for you to find out, and that is a DNA test when it is born. Do not just take her word on this cos I belive strongly she is playing you.
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reader, tux  +, writes (4 April 2006):
 I hate to say this but I think the kid is her ex's. I think Friday is a bit too soon for anything to show. I don't see a way it could be yours unless you had sex with her before friday. maybe say a few weeks ago.
As for the pill.. it is not 100% effective.. especially mixed with antibiotics or not taken properly. I wish you luck. You just need to figure out where you are going to be in this. But the way I am seeing it and by what you have said so far... I don't believe the kid can be yours. or have my doubts.
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reader, Barnzy +, writes (4 April 2006):
Barnzy is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok well a followup would be that her ex finished with her 2 weeks ago, but she was already in love with me before they broke up. But she said she was on the pill till a week ago. We had sex three times on friday and had no protection...She originally went in yesterday to the doctors so she could have a check up about the pill however she asked for a test because of friday night. I Beleived she wouldnt fall pregnant with me because she had only just recently come off the pill. So i was hoping she was not fertile... but then again im 18 and im at my highest peak of fertillisation....Hope this helps... shes going for another test in 2 weeks and im going with her, then i will ask the doctor if its possible the child could be mine coz i am aware that it does seem odd
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (4 April 2006):
 I agree with soulsista, I think that you need to make sure you are not being taken for a ride here.
Why did she take the test? Was her period late? I don't understand what lead her to think she was pregnant within a week of sleeping with you?
What protection did you use? When did you actually sleep with her?
I think the whole thing sounds a little bit fishy. I would seriously try and get some answers here because I would hate for you to have to live with this, thinking it was your baby and it might not be.
Check this out please, it sounds very odd.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (3 April 2006):
 If you've only been together week and have only been sleeping together for a week, I would seriously look at the possibility that the baby is not yours. When the egg is fertilised, it can take days for it to embed in the wall of the womb and show up on a pregnant test. I'm not saying it's impossible to show up after a week, but it's highly unlikely. It can take the sperm 3 or 4 days to even reach the egg!!! A pregnancy test can usually tell a woman is pregnant on the first day of her missed period, at the earliest.
You need to talk to your girlfriend and get the truth. You're both very young and this is a massive decision to make. You need to find out the truth about this baby. Of course, if you were sleeping together before you got together, then it may well be yours. But I'm telling you, it wouldn't show up on a pregnancy test after a week.
Get some answers and look after yourself. Good luck.
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