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writes: Hey there,I'm 17 and six months ago I got my second saturday job at a department store after leaving my first one. When I arrived I didn't know many people. After about a week there was a girl who came up to me and talked to me which I thought was great. Gradually I began to know her and we became really good friends. During this time she had a boyfriend who worked at the same branch. Understandalby he became increasingly unsure about what was going on betweem us, but nothing was going on as I thought of her as a really good friend. However, lately I have begun to really like this girl - as in I have never felt like this about someone before which has made me feel very guilty because I didn't want them to split up because not only does it look like i'm ''stealing'' her but he seems like a great guy and I don't want to hurt him. Lately though, we have started to phone each other pretty much every night (no one apart from us knows this) and it feels so good just to chat and she seemed like she felt the same. But, in the last few days, he had enough and broke up with her. She was upset about this but not as much as him. Then, last weekend I talked to her in her car after work and some workmates saw us which makes the situation look increasingly bad. What shall I do?!? I really like her - but i'm not sure what she feels as there are signs she likes him still. Also the pressure at work is getting bad. Do I just forget about her or let things blow over with the fear she may go off me?
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
 If she is a true friend, she won't go off you. Tell her to give him another chance. Let them get back together. Stay good friends but try to see a bit less of each other. Maybe you could talk to this guy and explain everything. Keep the peace. Good Luck babes!
- Phoebe xxx
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reader, tux  +, writes (3 April 2006):
 Hopefully she doesn't off you. Being dead is not a pleasant experience.
But what exactly does she feel? Does she want to get back with him or not? If she does, the three of you need to have a talk and discuss what has been going on. You need to explain to the other guy that what has been going on was just as friends and nothing more. Not knowing what is going on can put a lot of things into people's head..
and perhaps if they do get back together, you may want to hold off on your conversations.
If she doesnt want to get back with him and likes you, well I can say go for it after time passes. I would stay away from it for a coupl eof months.
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