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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi!! Ok so im only 14 and theres this guy that i REALLY like and ive liked him for a long time i think he used to like me back when we were 10 but well ... We were too young!! Anyways i cant ask him out because our family's are friends and if he said no it would be weird going to his house... Also i dont even know if he knows im alive and i cant get him to eveb say hi to mee!! I really dont know if its cuz he likes me and is shy or just doesnt care!!? I really dont know what to do so then i started to be obsessed with the way i looked around him and its not like we talk alot but if we do i turn completly red.. Hes had girfriends (hes a year youngrr) but.... Idk i just cant tell if he likes me or what to do???? Help!!!! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Here's the deal ---- just be YOURSELF ---- have fun ... when you are around him just have fun (be you); don't worry if he likes you or doesn't.
Just tell yourself over and over (I love me, I love me) and be friendly and let him know in your actions and manerisms you are "safe for him to approach."
If he approaches then he likes you if he doesn't then it means you got a BETTER GUY for ya :)
I truly thing (shy guys) will approach if they know the girl sends off signals she is available ---- the cool thing is it can all happen without a single word ever being said (so no embarrasement :)
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