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*attie90
writes:i need all the help i can get right now my boyfriends ex is trying 2 b friends with me hahaha funny why wood i want 2 b friends with her in the first place whn me n him dated the first time she was the one tht broke us up ahhh i want to talk 2 my bf abot ths but seriously hell have a major break down hes tellin me tht he lost all contact with her like he doesnt talk 2 her nemore but she sent him a message on myspace n he wont tell me wht she wantd is he cheatin also on his myspace ths girl tht he had sex with b4 he met me is now callin him baby n stuf but how could he cheat whn he lives w/me n doesnt leave the house can some one calm my nerves down about ths crap i dont wana thnk hes cheatn but evrythng is concludin tht he is help plz
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (10 July 2008):
 Have pity on all us poor old Aunties who don't text when you write in, Hunnie! I hope that I have understood half of what you have written!
You have GOT to put your foot down and talk this out with your boyfriend. You have to have two things in a relationship, trust and communication. Right now, you don't have either. And if he is going to throw a fit of anger if you ask him about this, that's a defensive reaction designed to control you. You, as his current girlfriend, do have the right to question him about this, because it does look suspiscious. He owes you an explanation, pure and simple. Ask him to give you an answer, without any attitude. I would also tell him how you feel about his answer and explain the ground rules for a relationship. The first one is that an ex should be an ex. Unless he has a child with her, he hasn't got any good explainations for being "friends" with her, and certainly no reasonable explanation for her calling him "Baby". Don't back down, some things are worth getting angry over and having fights over. You need to set the record straight and clear the air. Better to have it out than sit around worrying about it!
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