This man left me because he made another girl pregant. After months he emails saying they lost the pregnancy. He knows I want him back. Should I go back?

A female age 41-50, *licia writes:

A man i was madly in love with left me a few months ago because he made another girl pregnant. I still am not over it and cry everyday asking why? He did leave me and said he would give it a try with this girl because he did have feelings for her and also for the baby to have two parents. I left my country and moved to another and though i am struggling to move on from this guy i have tried. The other day after several months he emailed me asking how i am and telling me that they lost the pregnancy. Wht am i supposed to say here? what does he want me to say? why is this happening to me? he knows i want him back. should i go back to him?

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