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writes:18, and missing my girlfriend.She had to move away to university and broke up with me a short time before she went. I loved her with all my heart, and she made my world so full. She was my first love and we did everything together; walks, hours of chatting, going places together for the day, SEX!!, and so many other things that were special, and I'm not sure would be the same if I did them with anybody else.The chances of us geting back together at this moment in time are very, very slim, with the distance. She refuses to put up with distance, because she will be busy. In the mean time, I miss doing all of the above. She's the only person I want to share experiences with, and I can't.2 months have past, and I've felt very lonely. Seems like now, all the things we used to do just won't ever be the same again.What did I do to lose her? Will I ever have anybody as SPECIAL as her again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): geeeeza. i know exactly what ure going through man. i have a similar story. but believe me when i say time is the only cure. she left you becasue things obviously wernt working out, at least she was right in leaving you before she met new guys and it would of hurt you even more if she dumped you for someone else right?if there is no chance you can get back together... let her go. dont even try and be friends with her, at least for a while, untill you dont care about what shes doing anymore. becasue then if you call her and she says shes met another guy at her uni, you will feel shittttttt. its natural to feel lonely and like youll never find anyone. but just give it time, and soon your body will want to find more women, and youll meet lovely ladies and have good times again.you didnt do anything to loose her, it was the situation. and you will find someone special if thats what you want.learn from this experience my friend and dont let yourself get caught up in something that is going to end inevitably because it will hurt more than its worth.respect
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo whoever made the title for this, it isn't very good. My question was labeled quite clearly below "What did I do to lose her? Will I ever have anybody as SPECIAL as her again?". Our long distance relationship is already dead in the water. Please, pay more attention in future, otherwise you mislead people of what I'm asking them.
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