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writes:I have been like best friends for about 4 or 5 years with this lad. But since about end off 2009 i have got strong feelings for this guy, he went aways with the army to basic in september 2010 and when he comes back on leave we have grown even closer, he is due to come back next month and i want to tell him how i feel. I have cryed ect over not been able too and now i want some advice on how to do this, we write letters.. i didnt know whether too put my feelings down in a letter will someone please tell me what to say when he comes home, he is only back 3 weeks and i cannot bare him going back not knowing.My mam thinks he feels the same, 'by the way he looks at me'.This isnt a petty crush, i cannot imagine spending my life with nobody else. If he was hurt in war i would stand by him no matter what, I love him already.I am not my self without him, i am almoust in tears writing this. PLEASE HELP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks all.
I am 16 he is 17, basically i dont want to ruin my friendship with him by saying this..
I was thinking about saying 'what i am about to say please dont let it effect our friendship, i have really strong feelings for you i have just never known how to put it into words'
It is all good me saying that but i have no self belife i need confidence incase he regects me. But i no i need to tell him i cannot bare not telling him.
Basically i know you said about the army changing people, but i cannot see me spending my life with anyone else.. I would be commited to him threw thick and thin i love the bones off him i just need to tell him. Also he is not the type of man for poems
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reader, oneguy  +, writes (28 January 2011):
 Give him this poem. If he doesn't cry after reading this and love you for the rest of his life I will kill him. Personally.My tender loving heart,Long ago, a person did steal..I waited for it to come back,But it stayed there, cheating time's wheel.Where it goes, I go,With a hope so genteel..I wait for him, and wish,That the gaping hole in my chest, he will heal.How do I tell him!In my being how I feel..My intense love for him, as I look into his eyes right now,waiting to burst out of my lips' seal!My dear, my feelings for you, I can no longer conceal.I love you, I always have,This life is yours, with all its zeal.All the best Miss! ^-^ Go get your hunk ;)Best,
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reader, Birdman21 +, writes (28 January 2011):
I think it would help if your clarified your age and situation. Are you 14 or 15 and desiring an 18 year old in the military?
Regardless, your best course of action would be to tell him how you feel next time you see him, the military can do things to people, my dad wasn't the same when he came back, nor were a few of my other relatives. Not in the shell-shocked depressed sense, but just that their tastes and interests change. You have to act soon, give him something to look forward too when he comes back. If you guys have been this close for this long, I'm sure he's at least given the idea some thought.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): You're going to have to bear the month without him. Use this time to gradually gain the courage to talk deeply with him. You sound really close, so it can't be that hard. Goodluck.
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