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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I dont undestand why my boyfriend of 5 years gets mad when I dont want his family and my family know that we had sexual relationships. I know that his family judges the women for having sex for a young age but he denies it. His cousin got pregnant and well they didnt take it good they all got mad and everything. Im scared of what they would talk about me especially his stepmother who hates me and my mother with a passion.In my family well if they found out that i had sex they will be disappointed and will look at me as a disgrace. i dont know what to tell him without looking like someone weak and scared about everything. Help.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 September 2010):
To be perfectly honest, it's no one's business other than yours. If he was telling his parents and your parents that you were having sex, I'd be a little creeped out. Basically, they don't need to know.
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