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writes:hi everyone , well i have decided to give up drinking once and for all mainly because i am tired of the hangovers and the shit that seems to happen when im out drinking ie,getting into fights and things like that , its funny though because in general im a very quiet calm guy,the question i have is for no reason whatsoever a guy tried to pick a fight with me the other night , now he kept at me and at me til he provoked me but i decided not to get involved , do you think i should have let him away with it ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): Naw let him off, if his only way to feel like a man is to use his fists or assert his dominance over another man, let him off.
The best way to win a fight is to talk your way out of it and walk away. He'll meet someone else to fight, let them get hurt go to hospital or jail.
We are who we are when we drink, we just lose our inhibitions. You sound like you drink to get langers and to the point where you've no longer got any control it's better if you don't drink if that's what you do.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 June 2010):
Leave him to it. Start on revenge vendettas and you'll get arrested.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 Well, you've already made two mature decisions in this paragraph. Giving up drinking and partying is great! Not letting some asshole pick a fight with you is even better! The guy's face is not worth you breaking your fist on.
Good luck in continuing to move forward maturely! And you'll like your Sunday mornings with no hangover. :)
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