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41-50,
*ngeldoveoflove
writes:ok so I was seeing this man for about 9 months. We never planned on having feelings for each other or dating...we were just looking for sex. We had amazing sex, the best i've ever had. I was going through a divorce and he had a girlfriend that he felt he was missing something by being with. I asked him in May to choose between me and her. He chose her. I am so in love with him I want him back. I KNOW he misses me. He tells me all the time. I've gone on dates, seen different guys but I only want him. I need to know how to fight for him... Please help me!!!!How do I fight for the man I love!?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 June 2010):
No, no, no. You were a mistress and that's it. In no way were you important to him, or he would have left her. He just used you, and if you give him the chance he'll do it again. Let him go. Unless you want to be with a cheater who will either use you again, or cheat.
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reader, GSDfan  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 He is a cheater, what would make you any different to his current gf if he got together with you? Its highly likely he will cheat on you too. you need to get this bloke out of your life and start again with a clean slate!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 June 2010):
 And this is just another reason why Friends with Benefits is a very bad idea. You're lucky that he chose the girlfriend. Would you want a guy who cheats?? No way, man! How could you even trust him when he has no remorse about going behind his girlfriend's back and screwing someone else?
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