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writes:Dear Cupid, I've never been good at talking to girls, so when if found someone who seemed interested in me, I went with it. I asked her out, but she always had some kind of excuse to get out of it. Then one day when I asked her out again, she told me that she was trying to get back together with her Ex. But recently I found out that she used me to make her ex want her back. I'm wondering what I should feel like and what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2009): Well as has been said above, feel nothing this girl isnt worth the steam off your coffee, and she is not worth getting upset about. Would you want to be with her knowing that shed pull a stunt like that.I dont think so.You could call her names but then youd lose your dignity so hold the head up and if you meet her think rather him than me .
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reader, rcn +, writes (24 August 2009):
 Releived you're not the ex. Seriously a girl who'd hurt someone to get someone is selfish and self centered, is that what you'd want from a girl. Someone who'd step on others to remain in a relationship. Now, it does hurt to know she did this, but even more, be glad you're not the one she's willing to step on people for.
You found you can open up when you believe she is after you. So why not when you're after her? Girls are just people too. What I found, at almost 30 years old, what we'd consider in society to be beautiful girls, they too are just poeple. They have boyfriend issues, break ups, and even guys who treat them like crap. Many are lonely because guys won't ask them out. Intimidation, feeling as if they are not good enough. etc.
What happens when you think about asking a girl out, or that a girl would be someone you'd like to talk to , but can't find yourself doing it? Now that you know this girl is a tramp, let's look at some ways to get you more comfortable talking to girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2009): You shouldnt feel anything about that its not your fault and its her loss if she was only doing that just so her man would want her back then why want a girl like that anyway she shouldnt have led you so just forget about it you said you were shy and had a hard time asking girls out dont worry about that try not being so shy im sure youll meet a beutiful girl who actually wants you and not trying to piss of the ex cheer up hun!
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