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writes:I'm 16 and there is this girl i really like and i know she likes me. She would always be happy to see me, her friends would tell her to wave at me when she didn't see me, and she waved at me from across a crowded room. Anyway i asked her out because i liked her. She told me she wasn't looking for a relationship BUT she said she really liked me and she was really happy to hear me say that. I really like her and i'll wait for her. Am i doing the right thing? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): don't wait, that's the WRONG message, and it doesn't work. What stands a whole lot better chance of working is going and meeting someone else, having fun and be being seen out and about. Sometimes this will cause a girl to notice you MORE, and rethink her decision to not date you.
Hovering, waiting for her to come around will creep her (and other girls) out and you'll be sitting at home playing Risk during the Sr. Prom.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 January 2010):
You'll be waiting a long time. I think she was letting you down very lightly. She has said everything. She's not looking for a relationship at all. I'm afraid you have to move on from her.
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