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writes: Hey Ii was just wondering if u could help me plzzzz Me and this girl have been friendly for about 5 months and the other month she txtd me saying she has has not got a bf and that she still wants to keep in touch with me cos she will miss me. When we went on our date she has kept the photo we had taken of us and she has also kept the train ticket and this boyfiend she has now she says is " the 1" if he is the 1 keeping the ticket and photo of us?Then the other day she was meant to send her bf a txt and it appeared on my phone instead when his name is Kris and my name is Ste but K is nowere near S in the alphbet is it? is she tryin to make me jealous or sumthing? She says that the date we went on she will never 4get it was 1 of the best days she had and that when we kiss she went all funny but i still dont understand it? When we talk now we just end up arguing and bitchin bout each other then we say sorry 2 each other and that it wasnt nice but y does she still want me as a mate if we argue and then make up?The other day she said she "hated me and that i had "blown it "( y had i blown it she says she doesnt like me anymore) and told me to "piss off" but then she txts back and says sorry bout before. But if she doesnt like me and i pissd her off, why does she wanna keep in touch with me? She says I always make her happy and smile isn’t that what a bf is for?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): I think this girl really likes you, she says that you make her smile and she enjoyed being with you. As for texting you the message for the bf would suggest to me that she is trying to make you jealous..or even playing 'treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen'. Anyway playing games is not advisable because it causes mistrust on both sides.I would be inclined to ask her out on date talk to her, test the water and tell her that you would really like to see her, but exclusively for each other and no other partners.She said that she went all funny when you kissed, well maybe she has never felt that strongly about someone else before and finds it a little frightening, maybe she's scared of getting hurt. Do you have a lot of female friends by any chance? because this can sometimes cause a girl to feel insecure and possibly act like this. Just tell her you think she's the one for you.
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (15 June 2006):
 Hey Huni Sounds to me like shes keeping you hangin shes with this other lad and shes telling you hes the one so she obviously isnt feeling much for you sorry, it sounds to me like she wants to be friends with you and mayb that text was just to try and make you jealous maybe she cant quite make her mind up or like some girls they have a boyfriend n thn have sum other lad they text and flirt with to keep them hanging untill she decides if he current realationship is goin to work in that case if it doesnt she'll have you n will come to you when shes finished with him so basically your the back up plan ide stay friends with her but find someone new n then text her a message like she did you show her how it felt. Good LuckHelen x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): well i think you should telll her how much you like her and are willing to go in your realationship and ask her how she feels about you.Being a girl she is probaly going through some things so just be simpathetic towards her.i think i would know i am a girl.ask her how she's feeling and let her know your there for her.girls like that!
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