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Is it normal that when we have sex it's so messy?

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Question - (15 June 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

'Everytime' I have sex with my girlfriend when I ejaculate pretty much all my cum floods back out of her as soon as I pull out which as you could imagine is messy.. Is this normal and what does it mean!?!? How much is meant to stay in her? This is very confusing for me as you didn't learn that in sex education or in the playground! Maybe I wasnt paying attention at that bit. She is on the pill if its of any relevance? Thanks in advance!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2006):

hey, me again. no i dont mind the mess lol I just thought that how will a girl ever get pregnant if most of the stuff comes back out anyway!? lol. design fault! beleive it or not im 18 and never thought about it in detail before untill now and started wondering if this was meant to be this way or not. *thats good thanks people, i can sleep knowing girls are gettin rid properly and its no mistake of mine..lol only joking seriously!! no im not like that :)

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A female reader, toritor567 +, writes (20 June 2006):

How old are you?

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A female reader, Helen Help! :) United Kingdom +, writes (16 June 2006):

Helen Help! :) agony auntHey Huni,

Sex isnt always wat it seems to be and its nothing like the movies its messy and sticky lol dont worry theres nothing wrong with you or her at all tht very same thing happends to me you just have to have the tissues on stand by lol Good Luck

Helen x

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A female reader, Bev Conolly Australia +, writes (15 June 2006):

Bev Conolly agony auntYup. Normal. As to how much is supposed to "stay in her", the answer is none. Her vagina isn't a sponge! lol

What happens is that the acidity of her vagina changes the consistancy of your semen, making it more watery (helps the sperm cells, presumably), and that's why it seems to rush out when you withdraw.

If the mess bothers you, use a condom and keep the tissues handy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006):

It can get really messy. It's fine. When I did it before, there was usually a massive spot of cum and sweat and other liquids where her ass/knees were.

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A female reader, hannieseds New Zealand +, writes (15 June 2006):

hannieseds agony auntHi there,

Don't worry yourself at all about this! If you were trying to get pregnant then you would have to try ways to keep it inside her (standing on her head, installing a plug hehehe) but if you're not then a little bita gooey mess never hurt anyone (personally, I like the mess, sexy in a random-type way).

It's completely normal & it doesn't mean anything - just enjoy the sex and if you don't like the mess then keep a box of tissues nearby! xxx

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