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writes: I'm really good friends with this girl and I really love her.She did know I fancied her and we briefly fell out because she thought I was using our friendship to take advantage. We're back to being really good friends now and once we become even better friends I intend to tell her I still have feelings for her and I think Valentines Day would be a really good oppertunity.What I want to know is what should I do on Valentines Day to increase the chances she'll go out with me because I think it needs to be something romantic and meaningful? Reply to this Question
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (6 June 2005):
 My friend, she sees a wolf in sheep's clothing. You have already taken the first step in letting her know how you feel about her. And the result was not the one you hoped for was it? She KNOWS how you feel, now it's time to let her take the wheel. If she feels something more than friendship for you, she'll let you know in her own time. If you value her friendship, you will wait. If you are selfish in your own feelings, you'll only chase her away. Be patient and in the end, if she never warms up to you what have you lost? You'll still have a good friend you'll care about and she'll have your friendship in the same manner.
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (5 June 2005):
 Can you really wait for another 8 months to tell her? What sort of strain will that put on you and your friendship with and this girl? Assure her that you are not using your friendship to get into her knickers and value her as a friend before anything else, but that you do have stronger feelings for her.As for what you should do on valentine's day, if you and this girl have got it together, you will know what to do then, otherwise send a bunch of valentine's cards to all the girls you know, Who knows, maybe you'll get lucky.
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