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Thinking about an ex now going out with my best mate

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Question - (7 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2009)
A male Australia age 30-35, *nonymous_jp writes:

hey

ill get straight to it, i keep thinking about my 1st girlfriend. i went out with her for 3 months and i broke up with her about 3 months ago and im on to my third girlfriend now. ive been going out with my new one for about a month and its been amazing. i broke up with my 1st girlfriend because she tried to break up all my friends with me and lied to me consistently and manipulated me so much and i didnt know because i was naive and she was my first girlfriend. shes now going out with someone who was my best friend before she got in the picture. everytime i see her and hear about her i get a feeling of unbelievable hatred and im worried im not over her even though im in a great relationship now.

i probably havent given enough info so if you willing to help and need more info just ask, but what are your thoughts? i kinda want to forget but i am having trouble since i see her every day at school and shes going out with my now old best mate.

thanks in advance

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A female reader, :)31215 United Kingdom +, writes (7 October 2009):

:)31215 agony auntsorry if this sounds harsh love, butmaybe you should just forget them both.

If your old best mate chose a girl over you [therefore changing to old best mate] then was he really a good mate in the first place?

Was he still your best mate when they started going out?

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