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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey,I've been with my boyfriend for a year and things are great... except when it gets to the bedroom.. i can be sexually involved with him... but i hardly ever feel like actually having sex.I know this isnt normal but i would like to know if anyone has any ideas of how to pass this? or how to make me feel more open to having sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, Suzie767 +, writes (24 May 2007):
 sorry to be graphic but do you normally orgasm when you have sex?
whenever ive been with a partner in the past who didnt know how to satisfy me in the way after a while i just cant be bothered with the effort of it.
ive been with the same guy now for 4 1/2 years and we now know each other so well in bed its not a problem for me anymore...although it was for a while.
it helps if you know yourself what really turns you on. once you work this out you can communicate this to your bf and it will make sex much more exciting and fullfilling for you
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reader, DV1  +, writes (24 May 2007):
 It's natural for women to want sex less than men. Men have a much higher sex drive. The question is, do you find your boyfriend sexually attractive? If he doesn't satisfy all of your needs, you should let him go, before you do a lot of damage.
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (24 May 2007):
 i think once you get into it,you will be fine. do you still fancy him? ii think if you still feel like this you should go and see the doctor. its nothing to worry about as having sex is not the be all end all. are you taking any medication? because that can sometimes stop you feeling in the mood.
or maybe you need to add a bit more spice into it,you may just feel board because its the same old thing everytime?
i hope you find the ansew.xxxxxxxxxxxx
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