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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm in such a fix! Hope to get some objective advice here :)I think I like two boys!! This has never happened to me before! Is it normal? Boy A is my ex, we went out for nearly 2 years before we broke up. We spent the first year and a half together and then he went to college in another city. So we tried an LDR but it frustrated us both because of our differing schedules and stuff we never really got to talk so we ended our relationship. He's my friend too and I do love him. We tried to stop talking for a few months to get over each other but it didnt really work. I'm so comfortable with him and he's a really sweet guy and SO funny, we talk almost every week for hours and I tell him everything because hes just so much fun to talk to. He says he likes me and acts that way too, whenever we do meet up. But he doesn't want to go out again because we'd have the same problems we did last time.Boy B is my best friend. He's in my class. We started talking when I'd stopped talking to my ex to get over him. We got really close and he always took care of me when I was low. I liked him an awful lot as a friend at first, and I knew he did too. We meet up loads and go out pretty often just the two of us. Recently he told me that he likes me and I kind of felt the same way too! He's so sweet and kind and I love being with him. He doesn't want to commit because his mom was really depressed when she found out about his ex (whom he went out with 2 years back)So basically Im attracted to these two AMAZING guys! And they both like me back but aren't willing to commit for reasons I feel are valid. In every other way, they're both always there for me. I can't help but flirt with them both!I feel like Im cheating them. :( Help!!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (19 January 2011):
 I vote for guy B. Guy A had his chance and it didn't work out. You're connecting with guy B right now, so he would be the better choice. His mom will get over it too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): These guys just like you as a friend!! Niether want to go out with you so flirt all you want. There's no fix, nothing is going to come of it.
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