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writes: What should I do? I have bf who occassionally hits me and female friend who is very devious. She starts rumors behind my back. I am so lonely from relocating to another state I have no other friends here. I know these people are misusing me but I am torn. I hate being lonely and do not know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 Better be lonely than miserable.
What a price to pay for company!
Firstly, nobody has the right to hit you.
Secondly, a real friend should not be devious.
You are destroying your self esteem.
By moving somewhere else, you will be safe, meeting a real gentleman and better friends.
Your life is what you make of it. Take control NOW!
Lots of hugs, be strong and good luck! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): Hey there... I have quite a few frequent members here at DC email/MSN me, even joined my blog as commentation members. If you want to talk about anything give me a shout. Like guylostinlove, just click on my name and email me there, or contact me through my web site and we can start from there.
Your bf SHOULD NOT be hitting you, and your 'friend' is a total bitch. Of course you knew this already, or you wouldn't be here in the first place. You could alternatively, either contact ahy of the members here on DC - I suggest some of the more popular aunts and uncles - they're the ones with the heart beside their names. [laughs] I'm infamous, that's why I don't have a heart... 8D
OR you can always try to join extra cirricular activities - eg: clubs, classes, or try to make friends with co-workers, look for a mentorship program, maybe even become a Big Sister. You know?
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reader, guylostinlove +, writes (16 December 2006):
Find new friends!
Why do you let yourself being a abusive relationship like that. For all the loneliness in the world, it's not worth it in the long run. Are you in school? If you are, there should be loads of people you will eventually meet ... so, give those other people a try.
If you want to keep yourself busy without having to resort to those two people you mentioned ... do it online! You have hobbies don't you ... how easy would it be to find a internet forum to discuss your hobbies. Besides, how long have you been there ... doesn't sound like you're patient enough to meet people? Meeting quality people/friends isn't a run-of-the-mill type situation. Takes time. Don't think the first people you meet will be your type and will be a (real) friend to you.
Heck, message me for my aim screenname if you want someone to talk to!
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