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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Men are definately like buses!!I met this 21 year old throught my sister about a year ago and we've been talking on msn and such ever since, we've also met up a few times recently. He has now asked me out. However i have a number of problems1) I am going to uni in 21 days which means we will be started a relationship long distance which doesnt usually work for people who have been dating a while.2) i have promised a close friend that i would go on a double blind date with her so that she can meet a guy she's been tlking to on the internet. I dnt really want her to go on her own, this is why i am going. Cnt really go on this if i have a bf can i?3) This is maybe the biggest reason. About a month ago i saw an old friend who used to have a crush on me 2 years ago.We have gone out a few times to like the cinema or bowling (i really dnt know if they are dates). I think i really like him and he is going to the same uni as me which made me really happyMy question is what sud i do. Should i find out if this guy likes me bk before i jump into a different relationship, and how do i go about doing that? And what should i do about my friend wu wants to meet this guy.Im really confused and dont want to make the wrong decision. Cus u never know whether the right guy passed u by.
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reader, EllsworthT  +, writes (30 August 2009):
The "right guy", "the love of your life", "soulmates"--it's all pure fantasy. There are plenty of great people in the world: You happen to meet the ones closest to you.When did dating become something like a pre-marriage for so many young people today? When I was young, I went out with two or three girls a month. They mostly knew about each other. Hell, they went out with other boys. We were DATING--trying out each other, to determine who we were and what we wanted out of life.Don't be so serious. Enjoy this guy, then go off to university where you belong.
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