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writes:hi i have fallen for a girl at skool and she says she really likes me too and wants to go out with me. But she says she wants meet up more first. Which i'm fine with. But when i ask if she wants to meet up she always says that shes too busy or has no money or something. for the past month. Whats goin on?!?
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 She's playing the chasing game with you, even if she has no money it still plays in her favor. This is the most basic of game playing and is a completely natural process in dating. As I see fit you've got the signal she likes you, so just keep chasing until you get her (she's playing hart to get) if you give up, you fail.
If you decide to continue to chase her, just make sure you do it in moderation and not too much.
Good luck!
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reader, shiraz +, writes (18 January 2009):
if she says she really likes you too then there shouldnt be a problem. maybe shes scared of becoming more incase she wrecks what you have or if shes scared of getting to know you for a reason were unaware of. theres a lot of possibilities but the fact that she says she likes you must mean theres more to it than what you know so far. you need to approach the subject with her, dont be to full on. make light of it but get your point across, ask her so she has to give you an answer, tell her you like her but you dont know where you stand with her and its stopping you moving forward. she could be scared of commitment so reassure her what you want from the relationship but remembering she might not be as far ahead as you. hope all works out xxx
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reader, Mr frosty  +, writes (17 January 2009):
idk, maybe shes prude or scared to meet up? try talking to her alot more on the phone and like in school or whatever. and keep trying, if you do this and she still finds an excuse not to meet up than its probably not worth it. its happened to me before and after like a few weeks of that i just decided to give up on it, the whole experience didnt really effect me very much.
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