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*ummerSunshine
writes:Well My boyfriend and I have been getting on great, there was a bit of a rocky start on my behalf due to my relationship before, but thts all finished! Now four months down the lines things have been sed tht i find a bit hurtful. My partner was in a 3 and a half relationship with a girl, this ended with her dumpin him over a year ago but I cant help thinking if he saw her and she sed i want u back that he would leave me and go back to her.Hes called me by his ex gfs name.All his neices and nephews call me her name sometimes.There were teddies from her tht he only took down coz I asked him to.Saw a love letter she wrote him which he keeps under his tv. Theres just these little things that if i did to him he wud go mad but its not the same in his case.But then he says things like I have only ever loved one person b4 you. etc.He has only been in one relationship before me.Sometimes i feel like he is tryin to mold me into her, she is blonde, pretty and tanned. They are 3 elements he loves. Im only one of them 3!Should i be worried?What can i say to make things better? HELP please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): Becareful not to be paranoid about the ex and in the process destroy your relationship. Trust him if he tells you to that he loves you and try to let go of the insecurities.
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 youv only been dateing for a couple of mounths, these things take time. if things go well he will love you even more then he loved her. because he loved her there will always be a peice of her that is engraved on his heart but that dousnt mean that he feels the same way about her as he did back then. just wait, in time she will be almost completly erased from his life. besides he took down the teddies, thats a good sign, it means he want things to work between you two.
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