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writes:hi hope you can help theres this man that i have liked for a while and out of nowhere he asked to be my friend on facebook he then sent me a message asking how i was n where i work , we were sending each other messages for a few days running then he asked for my number , he was then textin sayin he was goin to come into the tanning shop where i worked n turned up on the saturday with everything he was saying and turning up where i work i got the impression he fancied me , then last weekend i was on a hen night and he was out i didnt realise he was best mates with my cousins ex who hates me , i got pretty drunk and asked him if he wanted to go for a drink sometime n he said hes not a very nice boyfriend n he doesnt treat girls very nice , so he blew me out what i dont get was why bother telling me he saw me more as friends and texting, turning up at my work if he didnt like me , i am a flirt and on that night i was with lad mates from school so it didnt look very good , i havent heard from him since do u think i just took it the wrong way ? his mate said keep away ? or that i was pretty drunk and with a group of lads ,thanks xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 March 2010):
Don't bother with him. He's either seriously insecure, or is a player. Either way, don't bother with him.
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reader, $izZle  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 I feel that what happen was for your best, and i feel that he was just playing with you ... because if he did feel all that for you he would not have done all that just to blow you away ... . what he did was really very mean ... and he is not worth it so forget about him there are better guys out there who know how to treat a lady I'm sure :) take care
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (29 March 2010):
 We all read the signals wrong sometime so don't let this get you down. He is probably just a player who likes attention. He probably knew you liked him and was enjoying the flirting. However he doesn't want a relationship with you and maybe that isn't such a bad thing - maybe he really doesn't treat girlfriends so well. I appreciate rejection can be a bit of a downer but it sounds like you had a narrow escape from someone who isn't right for you.
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (29 March 2010):
well i think you just read the signals wrong and he just wants to be friends or that he doesent want to hurt you if he is a bad boyfriend just wait and see if he gets in touch if not then forget him ,
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reader, cherelle +, writes (29 March 2010):
i wouldnt bother with him again. Obviously lead you on and then dropped you when he realised you were interested, almost like he got his kicks.
Dont contact him and if he comes back to you, be aloof....just dont ask him out or anything!
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