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writes:The guy I'm dating left his girlfriend for me. Is there anything to worry about? After we hung out a few times as friends, he brought up that he broke up with his girlfriend one month ago, but she refused to accept it so they're technically still "together." Then he told me he liked me, wanted to date me, and that he'll deal with the problem ASAP. He "officially" broke up with his girlfriend (made things clear) a couple days later and we began dating. He cut off all connections from her and deleted her from Facebook. This happened a couple weeks ago and he's been good to me since. Is that okay? I'm wondering if he'll do the same to me one day or is it likely a one-time thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012): There's nothing to worry about. He didn't break up with his girlfriend for you, they'd already broken up. What he did was make things clear with his ex before dating you which is a good sign.
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reader, CANDY61 +, writes (3 June 2012):
Yes there is something to worry about and I have a strong feeling that you know something isn't right about this, if this guy left his girlfriend for you he will leave you for another women.I've seen this situation happen on my job, not been rude or anything but what makes you so special that he won't leave you, be very careful of a guy that will leave his girlfriend just like that because when you love someone it causes pain and suffering after breakup. I was the one to call it off with my boyfriend because the relationship wasn't working out but I was still hurt over the breakup, I tried talking to other guys but that didn't work out because I realized I needed healing time before making decisions on my emotions.What I'm trying to say is that this guy might be the type that jumps from women to women and never feel any pains after the breakup while you're sitting home crying your eyes out. Now this guy is with you having fun while his girlfriend is hurting and don't be so sure that he is telling the truth about everything, he just might be still seeing his girlfriend and just being a cheater.Didn't mean to sound harsh but hope thing work out for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012): It's fine! He broke up with her before you two started dating, and he drew his boundaries with his her before dating you. He's honest and that's great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012): Thank you for your advice but what you said isn't really relevant. He, his ex, and I are all in college and nobody left their family. I guess my question was misleading, as he'd already tried breaking up with her once before doing it officially for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2012): You sound like the other person in my situation. you need to realize if the guy leaves his family for you, he will probably leave you for her once he realizes what he did. how do you know he isnt telling her your just a girl who wont leave him alone? you cant trust someone who is fresh out of a relationship bc its called a rebound. you need to focus on your own life and children (if you have them) and see that you agreeing to play in his game is only hurting the other womans family and making you a homewrecker. its best to walk away and find someone not playing games or who has a recent ex bc it will cause nothing but drama trust issues and pain. any guy who hurts one female for another will do it again and is it fair to know your the reason for anothers pain over some loser guy? You need to be careful and check his phone bc most likely if he was with her for so long he is holding on and still communicating and you have no idea. please dont be a homewrecker trust me its the worst thing a person could do!!
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