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writes:hi problem started on the 02.02.06 the girl i like got with someone else. we were close at this point and she was torn between two of us. i slightly messed around with her making my feelings unclear . She was having a party it was my chance to tell her and show her how i felt. however i broke my elbow and had to have surgery the day of the party.She got with this other boy. i was deverstated and really upset and showed emotion which is very unlike me. i was in hospital with a broken elbow and heart. she had been with this boy for ages and it had lasted untill easter of this year but they broke up. Throughtout their relationship i still made my feelings clear to her and said that i would wait for her no matter what. when she broke up with this boy i made my feelings clear again and took my chance. we have been seeing each other for the past 5 weeks now and things have been amazing. Altho the last 2 weeks have been a bit rocky because of exams. i told one of her friends that i think she doesnt feel the same as i do. her friend said that she didnt want a relationship just some harmless fun. i was dissapointed at wot she had to say. i told laura the girl i like about this and she said it was true and this is how she feels and that she does not want it to continue. all of theis hapened last night. i was so upset and dont no wot to do. i asked her why and she said that she doesnt no and that she still has feelings for me. all she said was that it was too soon since her last boyfriend. but why didnt she say this before now. in the 5 weeks we have been togehter! what do you think i should do?regards james
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reader, Gem86 +, writes (14 June 2007):
 Thats rubbish, Im really sorry thats happened.
I think that you should maybe stop seeing this girl for a while. Yes, she probably was on the rebound. Im going to lie, theres a strong possibility thats all that will ever happen between the two of you. I dont believe you should count on it going further, at least not for a while yet. She does need time to get over her ex. I think maybe you should give her some space so she can work out her own head. I dont think you should wait for her though.
Try get on with your own life without her, and just remain friends. Youre young, youre bound to meet someone else (I know that sounds like the 'plenty more fish in the sea' speech, but trust me!) I hope things work out for you, Take care xxx
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