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writes:I dont know where to start really... My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now and sinse i was 16. He was my first boyfriend, love and evrything even though we are both young recently we have started looking to move into our on place, but i'm scared because i have decided i DONT want to spend the res of my lifewith him. I also have dreamt recently on kissing and being with other men and im begining to feel im not attracted to my boyfriend any more. I hav tried telling him my problem but he always say 'oh f off what is wrong with you and your brain ect' i just dont know how to tell him feel i need a break from him or even end it al together... any ideas? Many thanks xoxoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): i am in the same boat at the moment. My boyfriends claims to love me and says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. But he has become part of the obsessive crew saying that i flirt all the time. My advice is finish him, you can always get back together later. Tell him you need some time alone and see how things work out. Good luck!
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reader, Gem86 +, writes (14 June 2007):
 Honnesty. You need to tell him how you feel and do it before you start getting tied into living with him.
There is nothing wrong with you for feeling like this, even though he's trying to tell you otherwise. You need to simply say what you feel, and make sure he knows you mean it. I have been in a similar situation to this. I tried finishing with my bf of a yr and a half and he told me he 'didnt believe me' and that I 'would never finish with him'. Eventually I just had to put my foot down (which probably makes me seem like a very harsh person, but trust me it had to be done).
The bottom line is, if youre sure you don't want this anymore, you have got to tell him to save yourself (and him) more heartache down the line. You need to prepare yourself, go to his place, sit him down and tell him what you feel.
Good luck, and I hope everything goes ok for you, Take care xxx
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