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writes:so its Valentines day... and neither me nor my bf has mentioned anything about it yet. kinda wondering if I should bring it up... cuz I know im going to be hurt if he doesnt do anything, doesnt matter to me if he buys somthing... just say something lol.Or should I wait... and kind of observe ... cuz if he really doesnt feel he needs to say something @__@ maybe its a sign? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 February 2012):
 and this is exactly why you should never have relationships with TEXT MESSAGES... he needed to call you and talk to you about it.
I hope you guys can fix the text message glitch and had a good V-Day!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou know what.... i feel like the biggest jerk in the world right now....
he sent me a text message asking me to meet up with him lol... but something glitched... its on his history, but not on mine (i never got it)
... now i've let him down cuz he thought I ignored it. granted i didnt do it on purpose...
either way we're gonna do something tomorrow lol, thanks guys for the advices
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 February 2012):
 A sign of what?
It could be possible that he doesn't realize what day it is? Or maybe he doesn't care since he shows his love for you on a daily basis.
Either way instead of sitting there testing him, say something about it. Tell him, "Happy Valentine's Day!".
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionah thanks for answering .
we've been going...... 15 months now lol , last vday was just as silent. but we talked about it afterwards... granted that was a year ago, but still
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reader, bardia +, writes (15 February 2012):
 Three things: 1. How long have you been together? If not long, don't worry too much. 2. Don't ever hold back or NOT say something when it comes to things like this. If you want to express your thoughts or emotions, by all means, don't wait for him to do it. People communicate in real, healthy relationships. 3. If you've been together more than a few months & he didn't even say or text you Happy Valentine's Day, you might actually want to rethink this relationship. This isn't a fake, greeting card holiday. And although some people can't say the words I love you, they will at least show you in some way. Guys know this is a special day. If he didn't say anything, I'd be concerned. Mine didn't last year & we'd been dating 5 months. He also didn't wish me happy birthday 2 days later. "Obliviousness" is an excuse to not care about others. Keep your eyes open for those "signs" because they're usually right. :/
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