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writes:Alright I need advice what to do here...I've been on a couple dates with a girl I really like, things have been going great, but now all of the sudden she won't talk to me.Won't answer any phone calls, when I sign online she either sets her status to being away or signs off all together(for all I know she has blocked me now) and won't return any msg's.Last time we met we got along great, so I don't know whats going on here... Should I continue making an effort to get a hold of her or just give up here and now without at the very least getting myself and explaination? This has only been going on for a couple of days, but I'm totally stumped as to why she is acting like this. Please help me out.-Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, it's not what I wanted ot hear, but I basically expected as much.Thanks for the tips guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhere'd you get the idea I've been calling, msging and emailing non-stop?Alls I said was she was ignoring me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): Sweetie I know that when I avoid a guy like you are describing this girl is doing with you is because I'm really not interested in the guy. If she really was interested in you in the first place perhaps was something you did or said, or something about your personality that didn't clicked with her. It's not you but her needs not clicking with your personality. I know it hurts because there you are with this feelings about her and she doesn't care. Rejection sucks. Look at me, I've just contacted an old friend through 'myspace' and he wrote an email to me. I answered and he never replied back. Was it something I said? Maybe, but it's not fair of him to leave me hanging like this. And he is 33! How inmature is that? Anyways it happens to all of us. I suggest not contacting her. It'll be worst, she will think you are a psycho. (Maybe she already does)Do you have a female friend you can trust? If so tell her about these dates with this girl and ask her what she thinks. She might be able to shed some light into what went wrong.
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reader, saziz  +, writes (26 August 2007):
If she's like that, then she is either avery immature and is playing hard to get, or else she doesn't know how to sayn that she doesn't want to see you again. Just give it a rest and see if she calls you. I think she is rude!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 I agree that you deserve an explanation but you won't be getting any, no matter how much you try. Trust me: I've been there. I'm giving you the advice that will spare you the heartbreak, the agonizing, and the wasting of your time.If you want confirmation, ask around how many times a guy has been in this situation and how often he's got an explanation.Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): Its only been a few days since your date...And your already phone callin her non stop...wanting to talk 2her on msn allthe time...and emailin her non stop...Maybe she feels Boxed in...Its like your not giving her any space...Let her call you... Give her time to think...And if she doesnt talk to you...Best thing to do is Move on...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah? Would it be stupid of me to leave her a private msg on myspace or somethng asking why she isn't talking... Or should I just move on all together.I can accept if she doesn't want to talk to me, but I deserve an explanation. Just ducking and running without giving any reason is purely childish.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (26 August 2007):
It is clear that she doesn't want any contact with you. So, I think you should give up here.
I know it feels awful not to know why she won't talk to you, but, the fact remains that she isn't talking. Let her have her way. If she wants you back, she will contact you. And then, if she talks to you, you will have your chance to ask her what went wrong.
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