New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

The condom had a hole--what do I do now?

Tagged as: Sex, Teenage<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (4 July 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2007)
A female Macedonia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 14 and yesterday I had sex with my boyfriend. It was with a condom, but on the end when he pulled it out there was a little hole. What should I do now? Please help me--I don’t want to get pregnant.

View related questions: condom

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, xlipgloss06x United Kingdom +, writes (7 July 2007):

xlipgloss06x agony auntGo and Get yourself to the doctors or to an clicic and ask for information take a test and hope for the best

Good Luck ...x 3

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007):

WOW! You are going through the same situtaion i was.. Well i was 14 at the time too and me and my boyfriend didnt use a condom so i was so scared..But i went to the teen clinic and i found out i wasnt infected or pregnant.. So just go check yourself... Its easy..

*GOOD LUCK*

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Straight Up United Kingdom +, writes (5 July 2007):

Straight Up agony auntnow i don't want to seem harsh but you are a little bit young to be having sex anyway. i mean how do you know whether your body ready for such a bit even if you think emotionally you are. now as for your situation you need to go and see a doctor immediately and for next time please take extra care as you don't want to go through this again.

good luck don't forget to update us

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007):

Sweetie, regardless of what happens this time, please make an appt. with a doctor and get on some form of birth control. Can you talk to a parent about this? Often there are clinics which can help people just like you, help you decide what kind of BC, exams, you probably wouldn't even have to pay for it. I know it's hard to talk about, but wouldn't you rather talk about BC than have to tell people you're pregnant??

Also, never just use a condom. Their success rate is not so great. You can buy spermicide over the counter, at a drugstore, to use along with it. Plus, guys can be, ahh, not so bright and not use them right, etc. Don't rely on the guy to protect you against pregnancy, honestly. You both should be taking precautions.

Best of luck to you!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (4 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntYou have up untill 72 hours after to take the morning after pill, but it is more effective the earlier you take it, so like the others have said you need to get to your doctors.

Take care.xx.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (4 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHey babe, go docs now, kai theres two options, the mornin after pill and the emerigency coil ( i got told from my family planning adviser ) they dont normaly offer the coil to you (which is affective up to 4-5 days after conception) under the age of 18 i think it was or maybe 16.. but you need a pregnancy test and then you need to think of the options.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x x

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (4 July 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntGet yourself to your doctor asap. I think you are too late for the morning after pill. xxxx

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, LauraE United Kingdom +, writes (4 July 2007):

Morning after pill - quickly! the effect is reduced the longer you wait. See your doctor immediatley.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "The condom had a hole--what do I do now?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.04690319999645!