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writes:I have been seeing a married man for almost 2 years, we are very comfortable with each other and both enjoy being together, he has never promised me anything but says he does eventually want a future together. I am seperated from my husband but my estranged husband is now trying to cause trouble by saying he will name the other man in the divorce and has also spoken to his wife about us. This married man has told me he will never give me up. The question I have is do the aunts think we have a future together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010): i think you should just dump him because if the guy really thought you two would have a future together then he would have broken his marriage off but he hasn't. try to stay away from the married men because most of them are like that and it is very rare for you to find one that isn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010): Hmm a future is possible...but where is the present? I'm sure at some point he'll have to leave his wife...so the real question is just that.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 The only future I see is you continuing to be his mistress,If he really loved you he would have left his wife and stayed with you. I'm not sure how Canada marriage law is but in many countries you are still consider married until your divorce is finalize, so technically your husband would have that right and could take away your alimony for adultery. Start fresh and don't get involve with married man they are not worth it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 April 2010):
No. If he loved you, he would have left. And I think you know it. He won't leave her because he has the best of both worlds. There is no future here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): The married man will never give you up, but he is willing to give his wife up? He's made you no promises and eventually sees a future; exactly how long is "eventually"?
He is still with his wife, meanwhile you have destroyed your marriage and your ex is on the warpath. I can't see how you could possibly have a future with someone who is still married. Please don't waste the rest of your life waiting for this man because you are going to end up alone.
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