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writes: My relationship is becoming a lot better. The sex between my boyfriend and me is still very little if even that. But, my question is, do I still keep trying to perk it up or what? My eyes are really starting to wander. I have this co-worker that I am just dying to get with, but at the same time I feel so bad for having these thoughts, because I really love my boyfriend. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2006): I'am actually on the other end my man was starting to wonder because the sex wasn't present at the time do mainly to having kids stress things we argued about that never got solved Any way he came to me and we talked about it I was really hurt that that would have ever entered his mind but, it also made me think alot about how I treated him ,myself mostly things I could change about me that would make the relationship better I figure this is what I will do cause I can only change me and if I work on that if he is to follow through and cheat then thats on him and eventually I will find out and I can look back and say I made an effort but, I would stress to him that you have had an wondering eye don't tell him who just let him know so he knows how serious it is. good luck
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reader, pzeller +, writes (31 December 2005):
 Talk to your boyfriend about this very directly. The first step is to spell it out for him (don't assume a guy knows anything ... ever).
He may have a low sex drive, but if you approach the problem together, you may find solutions you hadn't thought of alone.
As far as the co-worker, if you're just dying to get with him, ask yourself how commited you are to the relationship you're in. Going down that road, you may find you are on a one-way street.
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