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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My very first boyfriend... from high school broke up with me after two months... he lied about me around school nothing to serious... then we played games back and forth for a whole year...we then graduated but kept in contact.. we decided to meet up one day. but only to hang out... after that i found out he told one of his guy friends that we slept together when we didnt! i am a virgin! i spoke to him about it and that was only over aim. i dont speak to him i have broken off contact with him he doesnt speak to me as well i see him online and hopes that sometimes he would hit me up jus to see how i am doing but he doesnt i still live anyway.. but im wondering why does my mind still run on him when he stooped to the lowest of lows with me? That lie really hurt me and my self esteem what to do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 September 2009):
Don't keep in contact with this guy AT ALL! He lied and put his own ego and self centred personailty before your feelings and reputation. He isn't worth a moment of yout time. To build up your self esteem, you need to be out there having a good time with friends. You know you didn't have sex with him, and that's the most important thing. So you can look in a mirror andbe proud that you didn't lose it to a complete idiot. Have fun with your friends, and you'll start to forget about him.
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