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Help! How do I overcome those petty things...?

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Question - (23 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I hate being alone around holidays.. ive never really been with a bf or had a bf around holidays and im curious to know what that feels like to share those days with someone special... i am very shy at times.. but i can also speak out when i need to... i dont mind meeting new people i just jump to conclusions about the worst in everyone right away.. how do i overcome these petty things cause im smart i think i am pretty attractive but certain things hold me back i dont wanna seem too much into a guy but then i dont wanna seem like im not interested, how do i go about it?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2009):

Is there a reason that you're so shy and jump to conclusions? Maybe something in the past? (A guy treated you badly or something?) There's no rush for you to find a guy. Find the right one. Not the wrong one. If you want to find one though, find a hobby that you enjoy where males are also present. Then you'll at least have something in common with them. Then be brave and speak to them and see where it goes.

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