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writes:Am really unhappy. I meet someome 6 months ago, and felt in love with him. He had a girlfriend who he said was treating him mean. Like an idiot I listened to his problems - then we would make love.He left the country and promised to come back and we would live together, he has been away two months now I heard from him once. I since discovered he's with his so called girlfiend in another country.I want get him out of my system, but is finding it hard Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): Nooo, don't waste any more energy on him. You will never get even because he doesn't care. You can't sex your way into someone's heart. And don't listen to his words--look at his actions. Don't call, don't text, move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks,I knew what I was doing. I hoped the love/sex was strong enough for him to stay with me. I called him and cursed him real bad. Now he doesnt answer my calls. How do you get someone you love out of your system? I still want to see him again. Do you think I should text or call him? He said that he wanted to marry me. I want to get my own back on him, this might give me some satisfaction. I'm hoping that he still want and misses me.Oh dear am depressed
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): What is the worst part? Is it the loss of someone you thought you could be happy with? Or the anger at what he did? Or the guilt at getting yourself into this situation?
You will have to work on these things within yourself, one at a time... I would probably seek counseling/therapy, because your behaviors probably stem from deeper issues and it's hard to think or read your way out of it all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): I hate to say it but you kind of got yourself into this mess. He was honest and told you he had a girlfriend. Despite his problems with her, You should of ended things there. But you took it further and had sex with him. His girlfriend is obviously not that mean if he's still with her. You played with fire and got burned. I think this is a lesson learned for you. Never get involved with a guy, let alone sleep with a guy if he has a girlfriend. You'll only end up getting hurt. Which is exactly what's happened here. Delete him from your life and move on.
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