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writes:I'm very much in love with my bf. We have been in a long distance relationship for about almost a month and a half, and before that we were practically living together. I just recently met a guy who i think i might have a crush on. I'm not going to pursue him because i don't want to mess things up with my bf, but i feel guilty for these feelings for this other guy. Is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): You don't control your attractions, only what you do about them.
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reader, XxAnGelXxx  +, writes (21 June 2008):
 At the end of the day you cant help how you feel, and you cant blame yourself for an attraction! So no, you shouldn't be feeling guilty for anything, its human nature!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 June 2008):
If you were with him all the time when you were together then it might not have been love but just easy convenience with someone you cared about.
Long distance is really the thing that shows whether a relationship is going to last forever or not. It's really hard not to have someone to talk to and hold and kiss, you miss the attention and all the good feelings you get from him.
If you've only lasted 6 weeks before starting to have feelings for other guys then it is really not good news.
Seriously think about whether you are in love with your boyfriend, or he's just a really really great guy who you care about and all the rest.
If you think you are going to cheat then you need to end it with your man before you end up hurting him.
It could just be that you are the kind of girl who needs that constant attention and reassurance, so long distance so just not going to work for you.
Good Luck!! xx
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