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writes:hiya guys! a year ago now a teacher joined my school. (not teaching me though) as soon as we got talking we automatically had some heat between us. i know girl's have crushes on teachers all the time. but he is differnt. everything we say turns into flirting. he gives me such flirty looks e.g the eyebrow flash like all the time, looks up and down at me. gives me the sexiest smile. we also look deep into each others eyes when talking. and became really close friendship.even my friends say to me.. wow there is something going on between you two, a connection between us and constant flirting! they even said why do you both look into each others eyes like your the only two people in the world!the thing is he is married i know, and has kids but evrytime i may mention it he will always try and change the subject and not name anyone in his family.im really attracted to him! cant stop thinking about him! he is amazing.but from what i have stated do you think he feels the same way? or maybe just being flirty with me?i couldnt write every little detail about us as it will take so long lol pls wb xxxx thanx!
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reader, xLovex +, writes (23 August 2008):
You should read this:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/love-your-teacher.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): You shouldnt pursue anything, for one he is a married man and a teacher, you could ruin his career. When i was in school i had a simular situation, but u cant just go on looks from him or flirtatious remarks, when your really attracted to someone and you want there to be something its easy to start thinking there interested in you too, you start to notice every little thing and sometimes take it the wrong way. Wait it out till your out of school and see if you still feel the same way about him, changes are your gonna meet someone else and forget all about him. But you will know for sure after you graduate, if he is really in to you like you might think then he will try and keep in touch with you and he will be way more blunt now that you have graduated. while your in school though, You need to keep it very professional, you could get yourself in lots of trouble if you not.
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (3 August 2008):
 Before anything, first read these articles:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/a-student-is-in-love-with-me-how.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-falling-for-your-teacher-is-never-good.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/teachers-and-students-what-is-going-on-with.html
But if you want a straight answer, well, even if he's interested in you, you shouldn't try to persue anything.
I know you haven't said anything about this, but it sounds like this is what you hope. You think that what you have is "special" and "different" than what other girls who have crushes in their teachers think, but it just sounds exacactly the same. You think you're in love with him, so you feel he is in love with you two as well and you (and your friends if you told them) will see many signs that they will confuse as a proof he likes you back.
You know that if anything happens, it will be illegal and loads of trouble will come for him. But what the big thing you do wrong here is that you're flirting with a married man. You're involving yourself with someone with a compromise. Now, let's hope that your feelings for him don't go as far stalking or anything dangerous.
But my guess here is that you love the risk that invoves this kind of relationship. He's your teacher and you his student, and he's married to boot. A forbidden thing. Anything happens and you're found, big trouble will come. You may disagree with me right now, but let me ask you a question: When people tell you that what you feel is "wrong", do you just want to be with your teacher more?
But sorry for carrying on with the above, I forgot to address your question. I don't think he likes you and I think you're thinking too much of it. He sounds like a friendly guy towards you, but I bet he is with everyone else.
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